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"First of all, these stories are not conducive to children falling asleep." Wang Rongrong, senior supervisor of Suzhou Jung Psychological Counseling Center, reminded parents that the purpose of telling stories to children before going to bed is not for education, but for hypnosis. The best hypnosis story should be not directly related to reality, with strong imagination and suitable for baby's understanding, such as telling stories that are closely related to animals and plants, and the game color and imagination are extremely strong, so that the baby feels good and fun. In line with their tastes, rather than bluntly instilling them a certain life.
Secondly, "Why did Cinderella suffer so much suffering to live happily with the prince", "Why does the little girl who sells matches freeze to death?" These things related to social ethics and revealing some kind of cruelty in life, 5 years old The following children will never understand. Children are very capable of accepting hints before the age of 5, that is, "pre-childhood," but they do not have the ability to withstand pain. Imposing cruel or even horrible things on the minds they do not understand, is likely to cause psychological shadows. After the children go to school, it is more appropriate to tell them.
Compared with fairy tales such as "Snow White", Wang Guorong believes that animated stories such as "Donald Duck and Mickey Mouse" and "Cat and Mouse" may be more suitable for children under 5 years old, because there is no absolute good or evil in these stories. Good or bad, divided by friends and foes, each animal has its naughty and lovely side. In addition, he most encourages parents to adapt or create stories based on their age and personality. For example, "Turtle and Hare Racing" can be said that the first time the turtle won, and the second time the rabbit learned the lesson and defeated it. If the child is brave and lively, you can compile stories such as the weak savannah of the African savanna to defeat the lion, let them understand the fact that the weak can become stronger. Such a story is both highly targeted and helpful. Improve the imagination of cultivating yourself and your child. Wang Guorong finally reminded that there is a key principle for telling children stories: don't tell what you want to say, but tell stories that children love to hear.
What is the best story for children before going to bed?
In the warm light, and the child is lying in bed, if you let you pick a story and take your child to fall asleep, the first thing that appears in your mind is Snow White, Cinderella, and the sea. Daughters and other classic fairy tales that people are already familiar with? These fairy tales, which are so familiar that we let them talk to children without thinking, have recently been questioned by some psychologists. They think that for children under 5 years of age, they not only do not help to fall asleep, but may cause them a certain amount. Psychological injury.